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YOU ARE ALREADY IMPLICATED

Dear couples, I want you to understand that you and your spouse becoming ONE through marriage is deep. It's not just a mere word or just the ability to legally live together with your spouse. I do not have any intention of putting fear into you. My assignment in this post is the open your eyes to the reality on ground.

Let me start by asking this question, have you conquered the demons in your lineage? Have you conquered the demons in your spouse lineage? If you are in Christ, you are a New Creature but you must keep defending your authority in Christ Jesus. In every lineage, there is a blessing that flows and also spiritual battles that flow. The blessings in your lineage are your advantage and this advantage will rob off on your spouse. The blessings in your spouse's lineage will rob off on you too. In the same way, the spiritual battles you have not conquered and keep conquering through Christ Jesus, will also implicate your spouse. The spiritual battles your spouse's have not conquered will implicate you too. 

Either you believe it or not, there are powers in your lineage that will fight any one that loves you and want to make life easier for you. There are assigned demon against any one who wants to make you happy or make your spouse happy. People's reaction towards you are not normal. This is a spiritual battle that is dictating people to treat you in the negativity.

There are things your spouse never planned in their mind to do and say to you some times that happens. It's not because they choose to but there are spiritual powers that manipulate your spouse against you. It's also happens the other way round. These are powers from your own lineage. These are powers from your spouse lineage too. Always approach every conflicts from the spiritual dimension. No conflict will strike if the devil haven't project an attack in the spirit. How can your spouse that honour you, easily disrespect you and still not even feeling he or she have done any thing wrong? The enemy have done this. 

For your information, there are demonic powers fighting you and fighting your spouse from your lineage. Another thing you should embrace is this, there are demonic powers on your spouse's lineage that is fighting you and fighting your spouse. So, if your marriage is not a place of prayer, you are in a great trouble.

Don't be carried away, ask questions about your spouse lineage down from your spouse parent, to the past third generation. Go back to your own village or parents and ask questions about patterns of negative events in your own lineage, from your parents down to the past third generation. What have people suffered in your spouse's lineage? What have your parents or the past third generation suffered? Don't just say God forbid and fold your hands doing nothing. You might not see traces of such in your spouse yet, but begin to war in advance against powers that be, in your spouse lineage (even in your own lineage too). Some powers don't show up in some marriage until it is 15 years into the marriage. Some won't manifest till it is 20 years into the marriage. In you and your spouse, there are battles in your blood, waiting for an opportunity to manifest. 

Negative patterns in your spouse's lineage and in your lineage are not factors to use in judging each other. Don't use it as a weapon against your spouse. These information are fact that dictates the direction of your prayers and attitude towards each other. THERE IS NO CONFLICT BETWEEN YOU AND YOUR SPOUSE SINCE YOU GOT MARRIAGE, TILL YOU ARE OLD THAT WILL BE NEW. It has either happened in your spouse's lineage or in your own lineage in the past.

You are not alone in this, depend on Jesus and pray. The only thing that keeps marriage is understanding, prayers and the fruit of the spirit (godly attitude).

Dare to be a praying couple. Your spouse is not the enemy. The only enemy is the devil that have come to steal, kill and destroy your destiny and marriage. This is your day.


Prince Victor Matthew
HOPE EXPRESSION HUB

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  1. JustMeSeptember 26, 2023 at 2:12 PM

    I have so many questions on this particular post. Where do I even start from

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